Lifestyle Yak

By Joy Weston
The 4th part of HOW AN ORDINARY WOMAN CAN HAVE AN EXTRAORDINARY LIFE: THE FORMULA FOR THE ART OF LIVING WELL.

The First part of The Formula for The Art of Living Well is to Focus on
your thoughts, and for many great scholars and religious leaders that
simple idea is the very beginning and most important part of creation. And even though I have experienced the power of my thoughts, I honestly don’t believe the stick of dynamite that takes you to your dream, can be ignited without spark of belief….believing you deserve to have what you want.

If you don’t believe you deserve to have what you really, really want, then not only are you denying yourself the profound joy and unbridled feelings of happiness that come with such passion, but it will be impossible for all the focused thoughts in the world to ever land on your chosen dream.

Many years ago I remember reading in a wonderful book called Excuse Me, Your Life Is Waiting
by Lynn Grabhorn, www.amazon.com words that
I wrote down in my journal to keep me honest, as they say.

“ What are your smallest, your biggest, your oldest, your newest, your most deeply hidden desires, ambitions, aspirations…the ones that are so far out, so impossible, so unobtainable, that never have you so much as whispered them aloud…to anyone…not even to God? What are they?

What have you stopped allowing yourself to want? We are here on earth to learn how to create our desires, fulfill our dreams, prosper and to take this exquisite experience called life to it’s zenith. So take your treasured dreams out of that crowded old closet, dust them off with loving care, and give each one a long hard look. Forget if they seem too far out, hopeless or unthinkable. Forget that someone else might think you are foolish or whatever. Forget anything that has a No attached. Wanting and having is not only your right, but an absolute prerequisite for a happy life.”

The message is there to remind each and every one of us that YES, You DO Deserve to have whatever it is you want, and if you believe it, then that is what you will manifest in your life. You don’t have to be “more” or demonstrate some sort of worthiness, and you don’t need to have the right reasons or even give an explanation. All you need to do is to decide what it is you really, really want, believe you deserve to have it, and then sit back and observe the quality of your extraordinary life!

One of the quickest…and actually the easiest way to create the life you
dream of having, is to feel it. In fact, some say the only way to attract
Anything is to send out the vibration, the feelings, how you would feel
if the life you wanted was the one you were living. If you were to simply
go to www.google.com, and put in the words “law of attraction,” almost
every teacher on the subject talks about the need to feel your dream, so I guess there is something to it.

Don’t know how to access the feeling of abundance, a loving partner or a
thin toned body, when the evidence of your life…at the moment…doesn’t seem to be living proof. Well, I have found that the best way to begin the
process…to feel the flow…is to focus your thoughts on all sort of things you can be grateful for and appreciate. Gratitude and Appreciation for anything everywhere, from the buttercup on the side of the road, to the fact you can read this article and that there is a light above your head.

Gratitude and Appreciation create the strongest vibrations, and should be the top two items in your First Aid Kit for positively changing your life, and the perfect medicine for energizing that YES, I Do Deserve To Have All My Dreams Come True! If you want to learn what I did to put my vibration heart energy behind my dream to put a FREE copy of the inspirational book How an Ordinary Woman Can Have an Extraordinary Life in the hands of women in crisis and need, my vision to transform the
community of women through my PAY IT FORWARD ANGELS NETWORK, then go check out my web site.

Weston is a popular motivational speaker, internationally published author of the best-seller HOW AN ORDINARY WOMAN CAN HAVE AN EXTRAORDINARY LIFE: THE FORMULA FOR THE ART OF LIVING WELL, and the newly released IT’S JUST A GAME …IT’S ALL IN HOW YOU PLAY IT: A TRAVELHOLICS SEARCH FOR LIFE’S SIMPLE SECRETS AND THE DESSERT DU JOUR, as well as a Life Coach and facilitator of The Mind Over Matter Challenge Blueprint Audio series. For a FREE Audio Course on The 7 Must Haves for an Extraordinary Life, go now to www.JoyWeston.com, and if you want to hear more on this topic, listen to her podcast series on LifestyleYak.com